In the end, one should listen to one's heart and stay away from people one instinctively dislikes. In the long run. It is the heart that makes the best decisions.

When making a decision of minor importance, I have always found it advantageous to consider all the pros and cons. In vital matters, however, such as the choice of a mate or a profession, the decision should come from the unconscious, from somewhere within ourselves. In the important decisions of personal life, we should be governed, I think, by the deep inner needs of our nature.